Many of us have rolled through a stop sign while driving, whether inadvertently, because we’re inattentive or in a hurry. Some folks even do this on a regular basis at a familiar intersection.
We discussed this analogy last week during a series of training sessions I facilitated. The sessions were part of an organization-wide effort by a large YMCA in the New York metropolitan area. That organization was reinvigorating its youth protection efforts. After prior planning we were able to efficiently train over 1,000 staff through a week-long series of events. It was the largest concentrated effort I’ve worked with and it was very impressive to interact with all the different staff and see how the leadership of the YMCA took this topic so very seriously.
We discussed the sheer magnitude of abuse in the US today, particularly the frequency of neglect and bullying. We discussed the impact and severity of molestation and looked at how we can work to prevent all forms of abuse. The effort looked at protecting staff, the organization and most importantly the youth that are involved in programs and services. Our stop sign analogy centered on the idea that when we roll through that intersection the sign itself is no longer relevant. We compared that to how we all can sometimes forget to see the signs around us. In this case specifically that we sometimes miss the signs of abuse and more importantly the opportunity to build youth up as we look to protect them and prevent abuse. After all no matter the organization, if they work with youth, their goal is building youth. Building strong, resilient and confident youth not only serves them well in life, it helps to protect them for abuse and harm.
So after training this large group of staff over a five-day period I was heading back home. I has completed my air travel and was within a half-mile of my home when I came to an intersection. I looked at the stop sign and took a moment to briefly reflect on the week’s efforts and hope that others remembered to not roll through the signs they intersect with.
Michael Gurtler, Safe-Wise Consulting
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